Can You Please Tell Me What This Catholic Excuse for Banning Gay Marriage Even Means?
San Francisco Archbishop Salvatore Cordileone makes the definitive Catholic excuse for preventing same-sex couples from marrying in a new interview with USA Today.
Haha! Just kidding!
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A:The better question is: What is the great good in protecting the public understanding that to make a marriage you need a husband and a wife?
I can illustrate my point with a personal example. When I was Bishop of Oakland, I lived at a residence at the Cathedral, overlooking Lake Merritt. It’s very beautiful. But across the lake, as the streets go from 1st Avenue to the city limits at 100th Avenue, those 100 blocks consist entirely of inner city neighborhoods plagued by fatherlessness and all the suffering it produces: youth violence, poverty, drugs, crime, gangs, school dropouts, and incredibly high murder rates. Walk those blocks and you can see with your own eyes: A society that is careless about getting fathers and mothers together to raise their children in one loving family is causing enormous heartache.
To legalize marriage between two people of the same sex would enshrine in the law the principle that mothers and fathers are interchangeable or irrelevant, and that marriage is essentially an institution about adults, not children; marriage would mean nothing more than giving adults recognition and benefits in their most significant relationship.
That’s right. Gay people cannot wed because “youth violence, poverty, drugs, crime, gangs, school dropouts, and incredibly high murder rates.”
It’s all so, so clear.