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Better in Bed: 21 Gay Sex Tips from Our Favorite Porn Stars

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Sex is great, there’s no denying that. Whether it’s a long Saturday night with your partner of umpteen years or a quick nooner with two dudes you found on Craigslist, most of us (we’ve got your back, too, asexuals) are drawn to sex on a relatively frequent basis. That being said, none of us are perfect at it, and we can all use some gay sex tips. There’s always room for us to improve and explore.

There are new fetishes to try out, new toys to buy, different body parts to lick, smell and rub yourself against — the list goes on. We don’t care if you’re Jeff Stryker and Tom Hardy’s bastard lovechild, you could still fuck better (although we’re a little upset we didn’t get to watch your conception).

If there’s anyone who has come close to mastering sex, it’s porn stars, right? The logic is fairly simple: You turn to butchers for meat, you turn to conductors for trains, you turn to porn stars for a fantasy involving a butcher’s thick slab of meat entering a train conductor’s fleshy caboose. They know their stuff.

There’s also a very good reason why they’re in front of the camera and most of us are not (besides that second donut you had with breakfast). Most porn stars have seen and played with more (offscreen) dong than we can only dream of. They understand the semantics of sex and pleasure. So we’ve rounded up a group of our favorite performers in the industry, ranging from huge studio exclusives to smaller, independent players, and we’ve asked them to share some sex advice.

Check out the list of gay sex tips we’ve compiled below. Who knows? You might actually learn something. If not, every single one of them are stupidly attractive, so gaze at their glory and revel in the fact that if there is a god, he definitely likes these men.

1. Woody Fox

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I think the best thing is to communicate honestly in bed. Making orgasmic sounds just because you feel that it’s the right thing to do is not helpful. Fake moans will never lead to good sex. I always find it strange when I barely touch a guy and he screams like it’s the most pleasurable thing he’s ever experienced. I’d rather someone make honest sounds. I want someone to tell me what they like and ask what I like. Not everyone has the same sexual interests, so communication is key to finding out what works.

Watch Woody Fox at FalconStudios.com as an exclusive model, and follow his acrobatic talents on Instagram @wagtailcircus

 

2. Devin Franco

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There are two things that every bottom should invest in: (1) Some form of shower nozzle meant to be inserted in your ass to clean it out. (2) A dildo you’re comfortable with.

I know both of these have nothing to do with physically having sex with another guy, but they will make it so much better when you do. The shower accessory is key for obvious reasons, but the dildo is important so you can practice tapping into the muscles that control your booty. By using a dildo, you get to go at your own pace while you discover what feels good to you and how to relax or tighten your hole at the right times.

One last tip: If you’re sexually active, whether you use PrEP and/or condoms, make sure to get tested on a regular basis. Get in the habit of asking your partner about their status, as well as what they are doing to protect themselves. I promise it’s the easiest conversation to have, and it will make the fun times more enjoyable. You won’t have to stress or worry as much during or after.

Follow Devin Franco on Twitter @devinfrancoxxx and Tumblr @devinfrancoxxx, and catch him at LucasEntertainment.com as an exclusive model

 

3. Colby Chambers

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Good sex is all about ‘the feel.’ Instinct. Forget about everything outside of what’s in your arms. Forget yourself, in the moment, in your passion and in your partner. Sex is not about thinking.

See Colby Chambers in action at ColbyKnox.com, a site he co-owns with his partner Mickey Knox, and follow him on Twitter @ColbyChambersXX

 

4. Dani Robles

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Be piggy and wild. Touch, bite and kiss every part of his body. Express exactly what you feel. Also, try to make it last as long as possible; there shouldn’t be any rushing during sex.

Check out Dani Robles at MenAtPlay.com putting his piggy gay sex tips to use, and follow him on Twitter @daniroblesxy

 

5. Luc Dean

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First off, sex is like boxing. If both of you didn’t want to box, it’s not boxing, it’s assault. And it’s not gonna ruin the mood if you check in mid-way through. There is a reason gay porn is full of “Do you like that dick?” and “You want it?” It’s fucking hot. Check in and make sure everyone is (still) having a good time. As for tips, I have a few.

Lube is your friend. You’ve heard it a million times, but fuck — it’s true, and it’s worth repeating.

Eat fiber. I am a firm believer that you can’t eat too much fiber. You’ll feel better, more confident and ready to go — whenever, wherever, with whomever. The blander the cereal, the better the sex.

Be as much of a slut as you want. It’s your body. If having a lot of sex is right for you, don’t hesitate! If it’s not, that’s totally OK, too. Sex that you don’t really want to have is (often) bad sex.

Bonus tip: Facial hair isn’t 3-ply hypoallergenic toilet paper. Everyone likes a guy who eats ass, but no one wants beard rash on their asshole. Be careful. You know who you are.

Follow Luc Dean on Twitter @LucDeanxxx, and see him in action at BentleyRace.com

 

6. Rikk York

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I have so many avenues I could take to answer this. Simply put, sex should exist outside of ‘labels.’ And no one should ever be shamed for an interest in any sexual acts. This goes for heterosexuals, too! There’s nothing more discouraging than to be shamed for your inner fantasies — the true desires that your body and mind crave and want to explore more deeply. I mean, really, think of all the people in unhappy and mundane relationships that refuse to open their minds.

And please don’t get me started on labels. Anything from bottom-shaming to top-praising I just call boring. Pre-determined sex roles are such an orgasm-killer to me. And yes, you probably guessed it, I am versatile. There’s nothing wrong with keeping it 100% equal in the bedroom. If everyone in America would try to be more open, people would have better sex and a healthier, happy life.

Find Rikk York as an exclusive model at RagingStallion.com, and follow him on Twitter @RikkYorkxxx and Instagram @rikkyorkxxx

 

7. Sean Taylor

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The best way to spice things up in the bedroom is to try new things. Explore new kinks! Push your boundaries and do something outside of your usual comfort zone. You’ll be surprised what you’ll discover.

Follow Sean Taylor on Twitter @SeanTaylorXXX and as bad-ass twink dom living out some of these gay sex tips at BoyNapped.com

 

8. Devin Totter, aka Deviant Otter

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The key sex tip to improving your love life is knowing exactly what your partner wants in bed. What makes him squirm? If he won’t straight-up tell you, ask him! I know it sounds simple, but you would be amazed at what it can do for your relationship.

Sometimes half the battle is just knowing what he doesn’t like. Sex should be pleasurable for both parties involved. Men are sometimes embarrassed to ask these questions because it makes us vulnerable and it can be awkward, but grow a pair and man up! Find out what makes his toes curl.

Follow Devin Totter on Twitter @DeviantOtter and in action on his website DeviantOtter.com

 

9. Billy Santoro

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I always try to look at it this way: When you are focused on your own pleasure, you are usually neglecting someone else’s. I always try to kiss throughout most of my sexual encounters. Kissing is the most connected you can feel to somebody. Kiss, kiss, kiss! The more kissing, the better!

And if you are a bad kisser, well, just kiss something else — the nipples, the small of the back, the inner thigh. Use your lips on all the erogenous zones.

Check out Billy Santoro’s new website LeakedandLoaded.com and follow him on Twitter @BillySantoroXXX

 

10. Cole & Hunter, aka The Maverick Men 

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Our two rules are: (1) Never sex shame your partner’s kinks or desires, and (2) Be open and honest. Communication makes for the very best sex and the very best love life.

Follow Cole and Hunter on Twitter @themaverickmen and check them out in action at MaverickMen.com

 

11. Austin Wolf

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I guess my gay sex tips would depend on who I am talking to. If you have little or no experience, I suggest staying away from labels. Try almost anything twice. If you’re in a relationship, communication is the key. No matter how “abnormal ” you may think your fetish is, just ask. If you want to add a third partner in the bedroom, ask. If you want to get pissed on, just ask. Without talking, things will get stale, fast.

My last suggestion to everyone, single or coupled, is that practice makes perfect. No one wants to hire a race car driver who doesn’t know how to drive.

Follow Austin Wolf on Twitter @AustinWolfff and on Instagram @austinwolfff as well as on  HotHouse.com where he’s an exclusive model

 

12. Andrea Suarez

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My top tip on being the best bottom is to use an anal douche. If you make sure you’re 100% clean, you won’t feel nervous or worried about making a mess.

Follow Andrea Suarez on Twitter @ANDREA_SUAREZ_X an

 

13. Mickey Knox

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Communication is the key to better sex. Don’t be afraid to ask your partner what they like/dislike while you are in bed together. This gives you vital information that can improve your sex skills. Same goes for what you like in bed as well. Talk to each other.

Check out Mickey Knox at ColbyKnox.com, a site he co-owns with his partner Colby Chambers, and follow him on Twitter @MickeyKnox_xxx

 

14. Coda Filthy

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Release all of your sexual frustrations and fantasies during sex. Also, be as cocky and confident as you can be, even if you don’t think you are. The moment you doubt yourself or show insecurity, the other person will feel it. Finally, just enjoy the intimate sexual time you have with others.

Follow Coda Filthy on Twitter @codaFILTHY and on Instagram @CodaFilthyOfficial, as well as on his must-see Tumblr, EdgeMeNow

 

15. Johnny V

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Discuss what you both enjoy sexually. Be open to both his wants and your needs. Honesty is a vital part of all relationships. If someone is not open to their partner’s sexual needs, there’s no way it can work in the end. Communication is extremely important for each person involved. This will expand your horizons and open each other up to new things.

Having an open mind is something else to think about. While trying new things and indulging in each other’s fantasies is not always the right answer, you should at least have an open mind and be willing to explore.

Follow JohnnyV on Twitter @johnnyv_muscle and on Instagram @JohnnyV_muscle as well as at HotHouse.com, where he’s an exclusive model

 

16. Angel Cruz

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Never forget that sex is dirty and raw. There’s no reason to have limits with the person you love or have chemistry with. Don’t forget the best pleasure is seeing it on the face of your partner. Don’t be closed-minded to anything. We are animals and should not hold back on following our instincts.

Follow Angel Cruz on Twitter @ANGEL_CRUZ_STAR and in action putting his gay sex tips to use at CockyBoys.com

 

17. Logan Moore

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Tip 1: Try before you die. Don’t close yourself off from exploring in sex. You’ll never know how something truly feels if you have already said “no” in your head. Maybe you have never thought about being pissed on when in actuality it’ll be your biggest turn on once you actually try it. You will be surprised with what you find out you love. Enjoy the discovery!

Tip 2: Don’t judge in sex. Sex must be a free and open-minded area. You never want to be judged for what you do, so don’t do it to others! That’s a life motto!

Tip 3: Never eat spicy food before bottoming. If you respect the top, that is.

Check out Logan Moore at MenAtPlay.com, and follow him on Twitter @LoganMoorePorn

 

18. Junior Fernandez

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A good rim job requires a bit of teasing first. Work your way around his body before making him loose enough to be open. Rub his balls, massage his thighs, get his groin wet.

Watch Junior Fernandez try out his gay sex tips in action at ColbyKnox.com

 

19. Andrew Stark

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Do you want to know what really turns your partner on? What to avoid doing to keep it passionate? Just ask. Communication is the best. I love asking someone what their favorite part of a sexual encounter was after it’s done. Also, leave the ego out. This isn’t a porn shoot, and if you’re already naked with another person, there’s nothing more to prove. Just be you and do what’s natural.

Follow Andrew Stark on Twitter @AndrewStarkRB and Instagram @AndrewStarkRB. Check him out at FalconStudios.com, where he’s an exclusive model

 

20. Jordano Santoro

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Here’s my four best gay sex tips:

  1. Try to avoid masturbating frequently, as this will increase your performance when having sex.
  2. Eat bananas. The high level of potassium helps with erections and major ejaculations.
  3. Always remember to try and smell good.
  4. Remember that porn can give you some great ideas. If you find something hot while watching, try it with your partner or fuck buddy.

Follow Jordano Santoro on Twitter @Jordano_Santoro and on Instagram @jordanosantoro where you might just find some more gay sex tips

 

21. Josh Milk

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If you want to be a better bottom in bed, take your time in the shower to clean your ass. And if you are on top, do the same thing — you never know what can happen!

Follow Josh Milk on Twitter@JoshMilkxxx and at HardKink.com, where he’s the master of your dreams


There you have it, folks! Enough gay sex tips to fill your brain and bedroom with wonder and excitement for years to come. And for all you filthy SOBs who just came here for the eye candy, here’s a recap: communicate, douche, communicate, be honest and maybe let someone pee on you. You might like it.

If you have any questions about any of the gay sex tips above, or would like to share something we missed let us know in the comment section below, or tweet it to us @unicornbooty. Will you be taking any of these gay sex tips to the bedroom?

  • Joe-Danté White

    All the guys are sexxxy! Some of them looks like they’re too young for me.